Volunteering at Mensa, a local soup kitchen in Rome, was an experience that brought both personal fulfillment and new perspectives. From the moment we arrived, there was an undeniable sense of camaraderie among the volunteers. It didn’t matter that some of us spoke different languages—there was a shared understanding of the work that needed to be done and the impact it would have.
Carlo, the warm-hearted man who runs Mensa, welcomed us with open arms despite our limited Italian. I was assigned to the dishwashing station, a role I’ve done before in a restaurant back home. Working alongside another Temple student, we seamlessly collaborated without the need for many words and a shared goal. There was a natural flow to our tasks—cleaning, drying, and prepping trays to be sent to the front where meals were served, and the cycle would continue. I loved contributing in such a hands-on way, knowing that everything we did played a role in making the day run smoothly.
Jamie, my roommate, worked in trash and recycling, where she had more opportunities to engage with others. She shared with me how she had some brief but meaningful interactions with volunteers and guests alike, despite language barriers. Watching her communicate with just smiles, hand gestures, and simple phrases reminded me of the universal language of kindness and how shared interactions like these are just as genuine as spoken word.
After the lunch service ended, we sat down with the other volunteers to enjoy the same meal we had helped serve. The pasta, fruit, cheese, and croissants were simple yet delicious, and the conversation around the table felt easy and genuine. We exchanged stories about life in the U.S. and Italy, learning from each other’s experiences. A fellow volunteer, Anna, was curious about how life in the States compared to Rome because she was considering doing a graduate program in the US. This sparked a lively discussion about the differences and similarities between our cultures and spanned most of our lunch.
What made this experience truly unique was the way everything just clicked into place. The entire day felt like a well-coordinated effort, with each of us playing an important part. There was no need for over-explaining or carefully curated tasks. We were simply there, doing what needed to be done, and it felt authentic. Despite the language differences, we were all able to communicate through body language, nods of acknowledgment, and smiles.
For me, the most valuable takeaway from the day was the realization that you don’t always need to speak the same language to understand one another. I found myself practicing Italian more than I had expected, but even when words failed, gestures and simple actions bridged the gap. It was a reminder that communication is about more than language—it’s about intention and connection.
Volunteering at Mensa showed me a different side of Rome, one that often isn’t highlighted in tourist itineraries and websites. It was an experience of true immersion, where I was not just observing but actively participating in the community. I left with a deeper appreciation for the power of non-verbal communication and the strength of shared purpose. I felt in inspired by the passion around me and the kind people I met. Volunteering at Mensa reminded me how important it is to not just observe, but to participate in the communities we find ourselves in—whether at home or abroad. Being actively involved creates connections that go beyond what you can see from the outside. While studying abroad, I’ve learned that even with language barriers, you can still be part of something meaningful. There are so many opportunities to give your time and effort, both in your hometown and while abroad. Without the Culture and Identity Envoy Program, I’m not sure I would have been able to find Mensa, and I am thankful for Raei’s guidance throughout this experience. Wherever you are, engaging with a community allows you to grow alongside it.
Below I have attached Mensa’s website, as well as some organizations that I hold close to my heart from my hometown. You can get involved in so many ways! Be a part of a community in your hometown and study abroad to grow that community.
Mensa’s Foundation Website
Mensa’s Foundation
Berks County Food Pantries and Volunteer Opportunities